Hello Ladies, The question is for anyone of you who in the past were in abusive relationships of any sort (BPD) in particular. In your healing journey did you heal and move on to a healthy relationship? Did you have an “understanding” guy who gave you the time and space needed, and understood that you needed to heal? And gave you all of the time that you needed to heal? What were your experiences in the healing process? If so, what more could he have done? And if you healed how good and different is your relationship now compaired to the past? Sincerely, Ranger