Hope this is the right place to post this, if not I’m very sorry.I need some advice. I have a friend (male) who has been married almost 10 years to a very abusive and control freak. He is getting a divorce and it should be final this week. She took MILLIONS of his hard earned money and it’s all GONE. Two days ago he went back home and she wanted to talk to him so he agreed. He then said she still loves him, wants him back, is going to counseling (NOT!) to get help etc and I asked him why he even talked to her? (he called us from his house where she is still living) he said he “OWED her that much” … I just about fell over. He then hugged this woman who has taken everything from him and he’s losing his livelylood over it because it has to be split. She wants him back and she’s manipulating him. This woman would not let this man brush his teeth or wear deodorant because if he did he was cheating. A lil 85 year old woman gave him a hug and she pushed the woman back and told her not to touch her man. Oh the things I could type about her would make your head spin.Here’s the kicker he keeps talking about going back to her. I had told him I would always be there for him but then 2 days ago he said it again and I told him if he did I’d have to walk away from our friendship. Last night he told me he was disappointed in me for saying that. I told him I was sorry I just couldn’t watch this train wreck anymore. It hurts me to see this happening to him but we have been trying to help him for a long time. He lived with us for over three months (since he left her and filed for divorce).Did I say the wrong thing to him? I need some help with trying to deal with this.