Abusers, whether they be male or female, share a great many similarities in the cruel words they say, their accusations, their methods of manipulation, their spiteful destruction of property.In order to show this aspect… I am thinking it would be a great idea to list of all the horrible abusive verbage we have had hurled at us, the things the abusive people have destroyed and some of their methods of manipulation. In ordinary, common everyday language and examples. We can all see for ourselves… Geeze!! They do that!! They say that!!!