What resources, ideas, considerations are there for a woman who has been with a man for 8 years, not married, they have 2 kids (7 yrs & 2 yrs, I believe), he is an alcoholic (but no DUI or past record, no way to get the law on her side), just got laid off from work, he has no vehicle, but she has one from her mother (which he borrows to take to the bar), in the past he has driven drunk with the kids in the car with or without her there, although now he is very careful because he knows she will call the cops on him, she has no education or job, can’t afford daycare to get a job…She feels like the only way to protect her kids is by staying with him so that she has some control over whether he is with them when he is drunk, or her other option is to set a boundary of he either straightens up or leaves. Which if she sets, he will leave. But as they’ve kind of been through this before, he will have the kids part time and then she has no way to keep the kids safe (specially as he would then most likely move to his mothers in a different town), and if he leaves he wants the kids with him all the more to hurt her. What other options does she have?Any resources or ideas would be greatly appreciated! Please help!