Helen, thank you for replying! I do have my oldest daughter in counseling. I am going to give it a few times to see how and if it helps. I will then follow the sessions with my second to oldest daughter. I have researched and found a counselor that is a healing specialist. Hopefully he will help me out. I have not been yet, but I am scheduled to go. My husband and I did go to marriage counseling. She was a Christian based counselor and obviously that did not work because here I am three and a half years later.I am also talking to a domestic abuse director here in the town that I live in. I will ask her for more information about the groups that you have posted above. Any suggestions on where to start the conversations with the counselors?