Hi everyone, I’m pretty new to the board, although I’ve read just about every older post on here and am eagerly waiting for new ones.I just had an epiphany! I’ve always thought it took 2 wholes to make 1 relationship. But I finally realized why. I was thinking about why victims keep finding themselves in the same situation over and over, whether its with a new person or the same one repeatedly. And this is what I came up with: 1.5 + .5 does not equal 1, just an abuser and a victim.5 + .5 rarely equals 11 = 1 and makes it possible so…. 1 + 1 = 1So, in summary, if a .5 finds a 1 they can only equal 1 if the .5 first becomes a 1. Sorry I’m not very articulate! Hope it makes sense!Forgot to mention, .5 versions seems to be able to upgrade to 1, while 1.5 versions can’t seem to see how full of shit they are.