Wannabeloved wrote:She actually said “I want a committed husband”. I told her that’s what she’d had the previous 4 years, and she treated me like garbage.Anyway, after we left the meeting, she and I sat in her car and {ahem} talked for 3 hours. During that time, she was the most amorous she’d been in 4 years. She was like the woman I married. I see now that this was her last ditch effort to draw me back in, and while I certainly enjoyed the time with her, I didn’t fall back into the trap. The next day, when I told her that I wasn’t coming home without changes being made. She realized that she had lost control of me, then the smear campaign and dirty tricks started.