I had a long post and I saved it but it dissappeared.Anyways I just need some help, my abuser forced me to sponsor him here in this country and now that I escaped the marriage he folowed me and is still trying to intimidate me. He is the typical “nice guy” to everyone else and fools so many people and behind closed doors he is a monster who abused me and my daughter mentally, emotionally and verbally in his own country where the law does not recognize that kind of abuse. The law there goes like this, bruises = abuse, plain and simple so I was not able to prove anything. I came up with an escape plan cause I was near suicidal, someone put me into an apartment with my kids and is paying it till I get a job which hasn’t happend yet. Anyways, the abuser moved down the street from me and tries to intimidate me. He has signed up for an important organization here where he volunteers with the police, I am sure they are charmed by his sweet old man who always needs help routine. I need to find an immigration lawyer, a divorce lawyer, and I have no money and don’t know where to go. I do get some food stamps and my kids get medical, I dont qualify cause I own a 20 year old car and I need some therapy as well as other things. Life seems unfair for me but blessed for the abuser who enjoys many things. After all he always wanted to come here.Im sorry if it seems like I am ranting, I am just so frustrated and after losing my initial post, I just feel lost..